I AM ALIVE ...

Hi everyone ..its quarter past one and i don't need to smell coffee to keep me awake tonight :)

Its almost 3 years now since i stopped expressing myself here with you..Life has been really busy ..with all those kick knacks but as we all say .. you need to take out time for those little things that really makes you happy :-D

Today morning sunshine just pinched me and like that new thought arrives and screams in your head from the back and say -  you need to get back on what you left Dhara...and here i am again .. :-P

Most of my friends kept asking me whether i am not sharing anything here now and why have i stopped and all that .. i had that stupid answer always ready that "I am Busy" .Like we all are in our lives with those daily dose of life ..and routine stuff. Really friends , are we that busy ,i don't think so ..we all could get some time to bloom and flourish our passion/desire towards something we love doing and we always wait for that PUSH from someone or a Self Awareness or ..an Introspection..

Today the one thing that really pushed me to just pen down this very moment is  

                                      "STAY HAPPY WHATEVER HAPPENS"   or you say ,


                                                                        "STAY CALM AND BE HAPPY "

We all have those low moments or a period of time in our life when we see everything falling apart and  fixing it or trying to fix it or running away  ... none of those options work .I hope most of you would agree with me .Some situations are not meant to be fixed instantly ,they need time and your patience . 


I would say find you happiness around and with those who love you ..it could be your family,your friends,your partner , your kids   .Its gets so much easy to fight the situation with someone around rather than struggling with it by your own .Like i found my ray of hope in my family (my  soulmate , my mother and my father ) and  all those beautiful people around me who loves me and admires me..Likewise Everyone and each one of you is here to be happy and acquire what you deserve ...even more than that :-D 


Keep Smiling :) 

Find your "Place of Yes"

 Celebrate yourself every single day..!!

In our lives its really easy to find the place of negativity and hide ourselves in it . Whenever we are alone ,no one is their to share problems ,things are not good at work ,relations are not going smooth ,everything is going wrong, we often go to a "Place of No".But ,we forgot the things we have in our hand,the people who love us and care about us .Instead we feel sad and depressed about those who don't even bother about how we feel.We are the only one who could wipe our tears and pull our self out of that situation and no one else.Cherish the things you have ,life is too short to think about the bad..Care for those who care for you..

If its your work ,you can always start it all over again and ignore those who distract and discourage you or take it this way ..they are jealous of you ,so next time give them a winked smile and leave them scratching ears B-) .For those who are angry, they are not happy and just taking out their frustration so keep calm ,if they are your own give them a hug and if not than ignore ;)

But if its you who are totally left out and there is nothing to be happy for..dont worry,talk to your heart and say nothing can be much worse than this and everything is gonna be fine after this ..If you want those flowers and if you feel like those flowers will make you feel better, go buy yourself some flowers - don't wait around for someone else to bring you happiness.Say yes to the things you love.. 

Remember that people will come in and out of your life, but the only person who will always be there, is YOU.. 

So make yourself happy first ,others will feel happy around you themselves :)

That's how you find your "Place of Yes"

Malala , A Courageous young girl

Hi All.. Last night i saw the documentary on how this Pakistani teenager dared to defy the Taliban and  survived a horrifying assassination attempt turning into a symbol of bravery and a campaigner for girls’ education, telling the United Nations last month to send books and pens, rather than tanks, to troubled parts of the world.

Her autobiography, I Am Malala.. (The title is a strong answer to the Taliban gunman who boarded a school bus last Oct. 9, asking “Who is Malala?” before shooting her in the head). She is the youngest activist nominated for the Noble Prize. Its Amazing how she pulled herself back after that life threatening incident ,how an an ordinary girl become an inspiration to so many girls ,and women in different parts of the world surviving under brutal circumstances. She is the perfect example of "Women Power ". An Inspiration to us..to all..

You can watch her interviews HERE

I Think she is a totally worth of being rewarded with a Noble Prize for her courage and Outstanding contribution for welfare of women's education.
What are your views .. Do share in the comments below ...

Change..

Everyone is Special and so you are..!

You all know somewhere that you are unique and special in your own way but sometimes don't realize it...

Have you guys experienced this , I certainly have  I remember having to give presentations in class, and I'd sometimes get pretty nervous and choke up a little, but then as my papa used to tell me and I'd literally tell myself "I am a great public speaker!" (lol even if I'm not, it just makes you feel so much better and really gets your through it!  Actually..!!

When we have positive thoughts, our mind and our actions follow accordingly.

"The mind is everything. What you think, you become."
- Buddha

If you say, "I suck at doing work/makeup/playing sports/cooking" or "I can never be healthy" or "Bad things always happen to me" or "I am not confident" - then that is what you're brain is going to function by.
This quote basically sums up the idea of "You are what you think"

If you say "I can be healthy", "I am confident" - you're brain is going to go by what you say. Make sense? And notice how good it feels to say that - I am strong! I am confident! I am beautiful! I am smart! I am special! Good things happen to me! (Even if you don't fully believe it now, and it's almost like you're 'lying' to yourself, keep repeating it until you feel it coming naturally.)

So, Dig deep down in yourself and find what's that special thing about you that motivates you today 

What are your thoughts on this? Do share in below if you like